When Your Dreams Feel Out of Reach: A Story of Trust, Timing and Triumph
Learning to manage expectation and disappointment.
Hellen Buttigieg
11/19/20253 min read
When Your Dreams Feel Just Out of Reach: A Story of Trust, Timing, and Triumph
We’ve all been there – that crushing moment when something you desperately wanted slips through your fingers. The job you were perfect for goes to someone else. The relationship you thought was “the one” ends unexpectedly. The dream house you could already see yourself living in suddenly becomes unavailable.
Recently, I experienced this firsthand in the most intense way. I had found what I believed was my dream house. Everything about it felt right – the energy, the timing, even the smallest details seemed to align perfectly. I was so certain it was meant to be mine that I had already started planning where I’d put my furniture.
Then came the phone call that changed everything. The deal fell through.
In that moment, I felt like I’d been sucker-punched by the universe. All those vision boards, all those nights spent visualizing walking through those rooms, all that unwavering faith – had it all been for nothing? I found myself questioning not just this one manifestation, but everything I believed about how the universe works.
The Art of Sacred Disappointment
Here’s what I’ve learned: disappointment isn’t the opposite of manifestation – it’s often part of the process. When we allow ourselves to feel disappointed (without drowning in it), we honor the depth of our desires. We acknowledge that what we wanted mattered, and that’s beautiful.
So I gave myself permission to mourn. For two full days, I sat with the disappointment. I didn’t try to “positive think” my way out of it or immediately jump to “everything happens for a reason.” I just let myself feel human.
But on day three, I knew it was time to reset. I reached for the same tools I guide my clients to use when their manifestations seem to go sideways:
Release the death grip: Sometimes we hold so tightly to how we think things should unfold that we miss the magic happening right beside us.
Trust divine timing: What feels like a “no” might actually be a “not yet” or even a “I have something better in mind for you.”
Realign with flow: Instead of pushing against what is, I chose to dance with it.
The Plot Twist That Changed Everything
Here’s where the story gets interesting. Two weeks later, through a series of events that I could never have orchestrated myself, I got a call. The house was available again – and this time, everything fell into place effortlessly.
But here’s the real magic: during those two weeks, I had grown. I had learned to trust not just when things go my way, but especially when they don’t. I had practiced holding my desires lightly while still believing in them deeply.
The house I eventually moved into wasn’t just the house I had originally wanted – it was the house I had become ready to receive.
Your Disappointment Might Be Your Redirection
If you’re reading this because your own manifestations feel stuck, know this: you’re not broken, and the universe hasn’t forgotten about you. Sometimes what feels like rejection is actually protection. Sometimes delays are the universe’s way of lining up all the pieces – including the person you need to become – so that when your manifestation does arrive, it’s even more perfect than you originally imagined.
The key is learning how to reset after disappointment without losing faith in your power to create the life you desire.
Ready to Transform Your Disappointment into Your Comeback?
I’ve created something special for anyone who’s feeling discouraged by manifestations that seem to have gone sideways. It’s a powerful 5-minute guided hypnotic meditation designed to help you:
Release frustration and doubt when things don’t unfold as expected
Rebuild unshakeable trust in your manifestation abilities and divine timing
Reframe setbacks as setups for something even better
Realign with the flow of abundance and possibility
Using hypnotic language that speaks directly to your subconscious mind, this session will help you rapidly shift from disappointment to empowerment, from doubt to trust, from resistance to flow.
Because sometimes the fastest way to manifest what you want is to first release your grip on how you think it should happen.
Ready to reset and realign? [Get your free 5-minute Manifestation Reset Meditation here:
https://youtu.be/mEVmj2Q7z8M?si=UtpW_aqezzFUeEj – because your breakthrough might be just one mindset shift away.
Remember: every master was once a beginner who refused to give up. Your dreams are waiting for you to trust the process, even when – especially when – you can’t see the full path ahead.


